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How to Behave as a Muslim

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) set the standard for how a Muslim treats people. Honest, gentle, and fair, with family and strangers alike, and with people who opposed him.

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The Prophetic Standard

A Great Moral Character

Islamic character is built on the example of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him). Allah describes him in the Quran like this:

“And indeed, you are of a great moral character.” Surah al-Qalam 68:4 (Sahih International)
Core Value

Kindness & Gentleness

“Kindness is not to be found in anything but that it adds to its beauty and it is not withdrawn from anything but it makes it defective.” Sahih Muslim 2594
Core Value

Honesty & Truthfulness

“Truthfulness leads to righteousness, and righteousness leads to Paradise. And a man keeps on telling the truth until he becomes a truthful person.” Sahih al-Bukhari 6094
Core Value

Justice & Fairness

“Indeed, Allah commands you to render trusts to whom they are due and when you judge between people to judge with justice.” Surah an-Nisa 4:58 (Sahih International)

Actionable Steps for Moral Growth

  • Read the Seerah. Not as history. Watch how he actually spoke to people, then copy one thing.
  • Pick one fault at a time. Choose the trait you know is worst in you and work on that alone for a month.
  • Watch your company. You drift toward the manners of the people you spend time with. Choose them on purpose.
  • Read Imam an-Nawawi’s Forty Hadith. Short, and most of it is about character.

Ask for It in Your Prayer

Good character is something you ask Allah for. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said these words after the opening takbir of his prayer, so you can say them every time you pray:

وَاهْدِنِي لأَحْسَنِ الأَخْلاَقِ لاَ يَهْدِي لأَحْسَنِهَا إِلاَّ أَنْتَ وَاصْرِفْ عَنِّي سَيِّئَهَا لاَ يَصْرِفُ عَنِّي سَيِّئَهَا إِلاَّ أَنْتَ

wahdini li-ahsani’l-akhlaqi la yahdi li-ahsaniha illa anta, wasrif ‘anni sayyi’aha la yasrifu ‘anni sayyi’aha illa anta “Guide me to the best of manners, for none can guide to the best of them but You. And turn me away from bad manners, for none can turn them away from me but You.” Sahih Muslim 771
“The best among you are those who have the best manners and character.” Sahih al-Bukhari 6029
Social Harmony

Upholding the Rights of Others

Faith in Islam is not only what happens between you and Allah. Your parents, your spouse, your neighbours and the people you work with all have rights over you, and meeting them is part of the religion, not an extra.

This is the part of Islam people usually learn last and need first. If you want it taught properly rather than in fragments, take a course on it.

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The 75 Good Manners in the Quran

Seventy-five manners Allah commands in the Quran, with the verse for each. Open a Quran and read them in place.

Who was The Prophet Muhammed (PBUH)

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